Ladies, don’t get mad at me for revealing one of our best kept secrets, but I had to write about our kryptonite that creeps up into our mind every now and then, and the process of mental “Husbanding” that ensues. Husbanding is the process in which a woman witnesses a guy displaying godly spouse attributes, … Continue reading →

I had lunch the other day with a friend who is married and has two kids. As we were chatting, she brought up an incident that occurred with her 4 year old daughter and her latest life lesson. She said that her daughter came home the other day from school crying because a girl told her … Continue reading →

Thanks for sticking with me and hopefully now I can explain a little more behind the purpose of these musings. I mentioned in my first post this idea of SingleLove. Now, I know what you’re thinking, first “what is that? “And second, “Blaynejohn, you really like to make up your own terms?” (yes, you are … Continue reading →

If you went to a Christian college, you may be familiar with this term ‘ring by spring…or your money back.’ From my Christian undergraduate experience, I am very familiar the expectation of “ring by spring” which is introduced early on in the Christian undergraduate experience. For me, it was during the first week of orientation … Continue reading →

It’s Valentine’s Day or as my friends and I like to call it “Go to Nordy’s and buy a new pair of shoes Day!” I work with college students, specifically Fraternities and Sororities, and I get the pleasure of being an advisor for our governing council for all of our sororities. This includes the opportunity … Continue reading →

Of course all good ideas come when you are sitting on the couch watching reality tv. More specifically, The Bachelor, provided a moment of inspiration and clarity as I got my fill of unrealistic reality.  Now, I do want to state for the record that I do not watch The Bachelor/Bachelorette series because of its … Continue reading →